Loving People



 Love Each Other

According to our Master, to love your neighbour as you love yourself is of the utmost importance, second only to the commandment to love God. This commandment is found in Leviticus: "you shall not take vengeance, nor bear any grudge against the sons of your people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself; I am the LORD" (Leviticus 19:18). The golden rule perfectly sums up this commandment: "in everything, therefore, treat people the same way you want them to treat you, for this is the Torah and the Prophets" (Matthew 7:12). This saying of Yeshua is simply the positive way of saying what Rabbi Hillel said a generation earlier: "that which is hateful to you, do not do to your fellow. That is the whole Torah; the rest is the explanation; go and learn" (Talmud, Shabbat 31a). The Apostle Paul put it this way: "the whole Torah is fulfilled in one word, in the statement, 'YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF'" (Galatians 5:14). Of course, we can also include the commandments to not murder, steal and covet as part of loving your neighbour (cf. Exodus 20:13, 15, 17). Not only that, we should not take vengeance upon each other, as it says in Leviticus: "you shall not take vengeance, nor bear any grudge against the sons of your people..." (Leviticus 19:18). Taking vengeance on someone could be as simple as "you didn't do that for me, so why should I do this for you?" It is not our place to take revenge on our brothers. We are to treat others as you would have them treat you, regardless of how they actually treat you. Really, harbouring hatred in our hearts will simply lead to wanting to take revenge. Instead, we should love our neighbour as ourselves and forgive each other. This is how the people within God's culture treat each other. Furthermore, we must never go about to shame a brother. The sages say that a person who shames another has no share in the World to Come. We must always make sure that we never shame, disgrace or humiliate each other.

 Give Charity

In Deuteronomy it says: "you shall freely open your hand to him, and shall generously lend him sufficient for his need in whatever he lacks" (Deuteronomy 15:8). The giving of charity is one of the most important commandments of the Torah. Giving to those in need is an incredible reminder of God’s grace towards us. The Sages say that all are under obligation to give to those in need, even the one who receives charity. This creates a circle of charity and creates an economy of giving rather than greediness. Seeing those in need should engender compassion within us and give us an opportunity to shine the light of God’s grace upon others. We should always endeavour to give with a cheerful heart, with humility and, if possible, without raising attention to ourselves. The Apostle Paul said regarding the giving of charity: "each one must do just as he has purposed in his heart, not grudgingly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver" (2 Corinthians 9:7).

 Keep Your Word

If you really love your fellow man, when you say you're going to do something, you should do it. It says in the Torah: "if a man makes a vow to the LORD, or takes an oath to bind himself with a binding obligation, he shall not violate his word; he shall do according to all that proceeds out of his mouth" (Numbers 30:2). Just as God fulfills everything He says He's going to do, we, as His people, should do all that we say we are going to do. The Master explained this commandment this way: “…let your statement be, 'Yes, yes' or 'No, no'; anything beyond these is of evil” (Matthew 5:37).

 Pay Your Workers

If you own a business, be sure that you pay your hired workers according to what you agreed to pay them. It says in Deuteronomy: "you shall give him his wages on his day before the sun sets, for he is poor and sets his heart on it; so that he will not cry against you to the LORD and it become sin in you" (Deuteronomy 24:15). This commandment specifically applies to a day labourer, that is, one who is hired on a day-by-day basis but the principle certainly applies to other situations, where a person gets paid on accustomed day. As the people of God, we should be known as people who are true to our word, so we should not be late in paying the wages of our hired workers.
 


 Have Integrity

God’s people must be people of integrity, especially in regards to business transactions. It says in the Torah: "if you make a sale, moreover, to your friend or buy from your friend's hand, you shall not wrong one another" (Leviticus 25:14). If you are selling something, are you sure the customer is getting what they paid for? If you are buying something, are you cheating the seller out what the item or service costs? Being honest and full of integrity will certainly set us apart from a world who takes whatever they can get. What if you do steal something? To this the Torah says regarding theft: "it shall be, when he sins and becomes guilty, that he shall restore what he took by robbery or what he got by extortion, or the deposit which was entrusted to him or the lost thing which he found" (Leviticus 6:4). If a person has stolen something and the thief repents, he is obligated to return what he has stolen. Returning what you have stolen is an amazing expression of true repentance. This is evident in Zaccheus: "Zaccheus stopped and said to the Lord, 'Behold, Master, half of my possessions I will give to the poor, and if I have defrauded anyone of anything, I will give back four times as much'" (Luke 19:8). Additionally, if we find something that someone lost, we must return it to them. God’s people are to be honest people. The Torah puts it this way: "you shall not see your countryman's ox or his sheep straying away, and pay no attention to them; you shall certainly bring them back to your countryman" (Deuteronomy 22:1). Even if the owner takes years to claim what was lost, it’s still our duty to return it to him. 

 Love Your Enemies

The principle to do good to those who hate you originated in the Torah, it says: "if you see the donkey of one who hates you lying helpless under its load, you shall refrain from leaving it to him, you shall surely release it with him" (Exodus 23:5). Here we see it’s a commandment to help even those who hate us. The literal application of this commandment refers to helping a fellow’s animal if it had fallen down and wasn’t able to get back up. A modern application would be to help an enemy with a flat tire. The general principle of this commandment is that we must help people who need our assistance. The Master Yeshua put it this way: "I say unto you, love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you" (Matthew 5:4).

 Correct Each Other

In Leviticus it says: "you shall not hate your fellow countryman in your heart; you may surely reprove your neighbor, but shall not incur sin because of him" (Leviticus 19:17). It is a commandment to correct a fellow believer if they have fallen into a sin. We must make sure not to shame or humiliate the person. This is perhaps what it means when it says we shall not incur sin because of him. In other words, it’s our duty to correct each other, but we must avoid sinning ourselves. Pride, gossip, and slander are just several possibilities of what could result if we’re not careful in how we correct our fellow Believer. We must also remember to take the log out of our eye before removing the speck in someone else’s. The Master explained how to keep this commandment in Matthew: "if your brother sins, go and show him his fault in private; if he listens to you, you have won your brother. But if he does not listen to you, take one or two more with you, so that BY THE MOUTH OF TWO OR THREE WITNESSES EVERY FACT MAY BE CONFIRMED. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the assembly; and if he refuses to listen even to the assembly, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector” (Matthew 18:15-17).

 Guard Your Speech

Leviticus states: "you shall not go about as a slanderer among your people, and you are not to act against the life of your neighbor; I am the LORD" (Leviticus 19:16). We must make sure to let people speak for themselves. Even if the things we are saying is the truth, we must make sure not to repeat them to others. We all know that this is how rumours and half-truths get started. In God’s culture, everyone speaks for themselves and thus lives or dies by their own words. The Master Yeshua said: "I tell you that every careless word that people speak, they shall give an accounting for it in the day of judgment. For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned" (Matthew 12:36-37).